Wednesday, June 20, 2012

The High Demand for Slavery Starts with Us

Why Human Trafficking and Modern Day Slavery is a World Wide Problem and a World Wide Concern

This is my thank you to all who helped raise money and who gave money for me to go to the Not for Sale Academy June of 2012. I pray that during my time there I brought honor and glory to God above and brought honor to the friends and family that sent me. I pray that my time there was not wasted, and I have information that all may benefit from my attending. Thank you again.

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, for the Lord God has anointed me to bring the good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the broken hearted, proclaim FREEDOM for the captives, and the opening of the prison doors to those who are bound. To proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God. To comfort all who mourn.” Isaiah 62:1-2

Information:
         Walk into your closet, pantry, or living room for that matter and take a good look around. Stop thinking about how messy your living room may be, how you have too many clothes, or even that you need to go grocery shopping and think for a moment from where these products actually came. Forget about the label or the store, I am talking about the cotton that made the t-shirt that says made in America or the minerals inside your computer or television. Go a step further and think about the chocolate chips in your cupboard. Have you ever stopped and wondered, “Where did the things that I use every day actually come from?” Here is a little dose of reality that hit me way too hard during my training at the Not for Sale Academy. The high demand for slavery does not come from some scary looking mafia men; it comes from people like you and me. Isn’t that a scary idea?! There are children being kidnapped and forced to work in the jungles of Africa picking Cocoa from the trees because we like Hershey’s chocolate bars. This is not something that we can justify nor distance ourselves from any longer. There are companies all over the world trying to expose the truth that since we do not ask businesses where our items come from, they are finding the cheapest labor possible and getting away with using slavery to create things common in our society.

         We fuel this demand by wanting cheap material in high quantities. We do not want to spend a large amount of money on a toy for our child. We would rather spend a small amount of money and get a wide range of variety. Companies are not ignorant, and they track our spending habits. Hasbro, Mattel, etc. see that we do not want to spend a lot of money, so they vouch for sweat shop laborers to create things so that the company can sell the item at a cheaper rate. The reality is that though sex trafficking is a horrendous act that should be stopped immediately; they actually serve a small percentage of the 27 million enslaved. Most of the people enslaved today make the clothing you are probably wearing at this moment. That sound daunting? Good! We need this to sound daunting because the only we are going to see an end to modern day slavery is decrease the demand. Here are a few more facts for you:
o Labor Trafficking is the most prevalent source of slavery.
o There are five types of trafficking: Labor, Child, Sex, Organ, and Domestic Servitude.
 o Type of Work Traffickers Traffic Victims for: Sex, Domestic (nannies or servants), Marriage, factory work, agriculture, restaurant, manufacturing, home care, servile marriage, criminal activity (drug transporting), construction, hotel or motel work, housekeeping, daycare teachers, cleaning business, and domestic services for Embassy Employees: Diplomats.
o The victims are usually recruited in the following ways: a personal relationship, newpaper ads, internet, or the promise of work.
o Victims are not just women. Many come from rural villages, but that doesn’t mean that they are poor or uneducated. Many men and women who have graduated from college with Master’s degrees have ended up being trafficked. Traffickers are not just men either, and they are not just big crime involvement type people. They can be someone as simple as a man or wife.
o Victims have difficulty seeking help because of language barriers, restricted movement, fear of authority, fear of deportation, lack of accurate knowledge of rights and resources, shame or scorn from family, trauma, or attachment to trafficker.
  o Many of the women getting stuck in Sex Slavery are from poor villages where there is not work to sustain themselves or their family. These women take loans to come to America or other westernized countries because they believe lies that once they get into those countries they will find work. They hear these lies from other women who work to recruit women for business. These women are beaten into submission and eventually learn to be “good” at their job in hopes of returning to their land or making enough money to send home to their families. Most of the women, even after “rescue” or paying off their debts return to prostitution. It is the only thing they know how to do, and when people find out what they are doing, even if they were trapped into the industry, they are looked at as a prostitute. The Price of Sex Documentary
o Many of the girls from the small villages mentioned above know that many of the girls that leave the village end up in horrific situations, but with no view of any type of future, they continue to trusts the men and women promising futures in other countries. I thought that this was an impossible idea until I met a girl on the bus in San Francisco. She was from Ukraine and took out a huge loan from the bank in order to come to America. She was going to college and working side jobs such as cleaning houses and teaching private dance lessons to pay back the loan. The Price of Sex
o The TVPA (Trafficking Victims Protection Act) of 2000 defines trafficking the recruitment, transportation, transfer, harboring or receipt of persons, by means of the threat or use of force or other forms of coercion, of abduction, of fraud, of deception, of the abuse of power or of a position of vulnerability. Any child being used for prostitution under the age of consent is automatically trafficking. The age of consent in Arkansas is 16.
o Made in the USA is not a safe answer to this problem. Only a small percentage of the item has to be assembled in America for it to have the Made in the USA tag.

Purpose:
        I bet you are saying right now to yourselves, “Okay, great Paula. I have heard a lot of this before, and even if I hadn’t you are telling me I can’t get away from using stuff made by slaves. Thanks for the uplifting words…now what?” I will respond with please do not get discouraged. Discouragement is another tool used by the traffickers. This problem is big, but it is not too big. Nothing is too big for God right, and we are His people. The perfect question is “Now what?”

 What Not for Sale is doing: NFS has discovered that slavery is a business, and the best way to fight it is business. They are building a corporation and a force of people to fight for the justice of people. They have discovered a way of doing this that is like no other. They are also trying to get out of the category of non-profit so that they do not have to wait on government grants to continue doing work. They are focused on finding ways to be self-sustaining. They are going into areas with high probability of trafficking and building business creating jobs. The jobs are being given to not just survivors but common people of the villages. By doing this, they are creating chains of fair trade products and creating job so that people will not be tempted to go into bigger cities looking for jobs. They showed up some new things coming out on their product line, and though I cannot give you details, I can say that there are exciting things coming out of NFS. While you wait for their new products, check out their Rebbl tea. http://www.causes.com/causes/597-not-for-sale/actions/1661196 In addition to creating a system to stop trafficking before it happens, they are training a force of people (like me) to be a part of the abolitionist movement.

What will I be doing now that I am trained: I am responsible for the research of cases of trafficking that have already been exposed. I research these cases and report them to slaverymap.org. This web-site is a tool for everyday people to see where and when trafficking is taking place in their own communities and around the world. In addition to this, I am responsible for bringing awareness to the community about trafficking. I now have a wide range of knowledge too in-depth for this letter, but I would love to sit down with any of you and talk logistics. I have also been trained to recognize trafficking in my everyday life. If I am in the opinion that trafficking is happening then I am trained to approach victims of trafficking so that they may reach out for help. Michael and I will be taking the knowledge that I now have to help with organizations in Arkansas. I am also trained to investigate cases of sex slavery online. This is a skill that I am thankful to have, but I ask for prayers as my husband and I figure out the best method for me to use this skill considering the obvious issues with the material I will have to be researching.

What you can do:
• Accept the reality that slavery does exist and it affects us in every area of our life at the current moment.
• Accept the reality that you are an abolitionist and your role as a believer and consumer can either contribute or fight modern day slavery.
  • Pray for your community, for America, and for the world. Pray that the voices of those in bondage be heard. Pray that more organizations step up with a desire to love people the way Christ loves us.
• Reshape your view of people (especially immigrants and prostitutes). Contribute to the breaking down of stereotypes because stereotypes contribute to human trafficking. Most immigrants are too afraid of asking for help for fear of hatred or deportation. When we refuse to look at people with the eyes of God, we dehumanize them. It is easy for people to take advantage of people who people quit seeing as human.
• Become a smart consumer. Download the Free2work app (www.free2work.org). This app allows you to scan the barcode of a product you are about to purchase. Once the barcode is scanned, the app will tell you the rating of the company. High grades determine if the company is working towards a no tolerance mindset. A lower grade determines if the company is doing nothing to fight slavery. We may have to pay more for things that are made in no tolerant shops, but do we really want to get gratification from someone’s deprivation? Remember that we the consumer run the show! If begin to speak out against companies that use slave labor in their production then we speak volumes about where we want to put our money. The reality is, as well, that a lot of clothing is not made in “no tolerant factories”. As we pray for transformation, think of some ways to purchase clothing at a no profit to the company (such as buying from second hand stores).
• Open your eyes to the world around you. You go to a Chinese restaurant to eat after church on Sunday. Your waitress seems happy enough, but she doesn’t really talk to you and she looks sad or nervous. All of a sudden you realize that you live in a community where there is slim to no Chinese population. You may ask where she came from, what she is doing in town, or if she likes her job. These are basic questions that can lead you to some pretty important information. If you have a concern that human trafficking is occurring call the Polaris Project hotline number 1-800-373-7888. Memorize this number. It would be easy to write this name on a napkin. If you have any more questions about what to do in these situations, feel free to contact me.
  • Be a realist but an optimistic realist. Faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains. Welcome to the mountain. Sometimes, I feel like we got in statistics like 27 million people entrapped in slavery today. However, those are humans we are talking about. Each human desperate for freedom. Each human being beaten, abused, exploited, raped, etc. Each human that has an individual story. We have to feel like these people will be freed. We have to pray with faith that God will move mountains in this area.
• Let us, the church, end the issue with sex. We need to have freedom to discuss sex in the church so that people who are struggling with addictions to pornography or people who have reached the point they are buying sex can reach out for help knowing that they will not be shunned. God offered sex as a gift, and he meant it for good. It is the world that turned it into something perverted, and then the church decided that sex was bad. I read a portion of a book while I was in San Francisco that stated sex is a big deal. God intended it for married couples as a gift and a way to reproduce. However, sex is not as big as a deal as we think. The idea that sex sells needs to be destroyed and we need to start opening our hearts to the idea that struggling with some sort of sexual issue is fairly normal. We also need to speak out against pornography and teaching our sons and daughters about purity. This is so important because in my work, I have to research cases of sex slavery online. There are so many men that treat buying sex like they were going to see a new movie.
  • Get involved with your community. I would love if you joined a group such as P.A.T.H or Not for Sale, but that isn’t what I am talking about. I am talking about your neighbors, the people in the grocery store, the people at the park, etc. This goes back to opening our eyes. We, as the church, need to be opening our arms, hearts, and eyes. Thank you.

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Airport Rambles

I am updating from my Kindle Fire, so I really have no idea how this is going to look once it is posted. Does anyone else out there in blog world just love being a wife? Maybe it is because I am just a newlywed as I am often told, and maybe the feeling will soon wear off making loving my husband and loving my role as his wife more difficult. Maybe it is just I have a fantastic husband who makes being a wife easier. Whatever the cause, my role as wife is something I hold precious to my heart. I do pray that for as long as I have breath my role as wife will reign high on my list. However, I have found that in devoloping my role as wife I have somewhat forgotten or even disregarded my role as daughter. My world has became self-centered and me focused. I have developed fears that have blinded my sight of the Father, and I have held dearly to the control of my little family. If the last two days have taught me anything it is that I do not have control over anything. Including the weather or how quickly the airport attendants move. Fullfilling my role as wife is a crucial part of filling my role as daughter. It is not the only part of being daughter, though, and God calls us to lay everything down for the life He is freely giving us. Today, as I watched my husband carefully hand my bags over to me and kiss me goodbye I was reminded of the calling to lay our life down. It reminded me of the story of Deborah. She was a wife and a good judge. She was submissive and yet strong and wise. I wonder about the relationship between her and her husband. Did he laugh and smile kindly at the sight of her teaching under the tree? Did his love for her grow when he saw her not only fullfilling her role as wife but also fullfilling her role as daughter? Did he swell with pride when she went to battle after lovingly but honestly speaking truth? God has given me many gifts, and He has given me a husband that knows how to develop, cherish, value, and use those gifts. However, Michael knows that using my gifts is a decision that is ultimately mine. He pushes but does not shove. However, I will see God one day, and He is going to ask me how I used His gifts...maybe I can have a story like Deborah. Yes God... I was a wife, but I was also a daughter, and I hope I was a good one. On another note, have I ever mentioned how much I hate flying?!

Monday, June 11, 2012

Rediscovering Joy

         I should be tucked in tight in my big and comfortable bed, but I am up tonight... packing... or procrastinating packing (whichever suits you best).  In less than 24 hours, I will be boarding a plane to San Francisco, and if the plane doesn't crash (yes, this is a legit fear), Wednesday morning I will begin my investigator training.  I can't believe the time is already here.  My husband is working tonight, or he would be here pulling me away from the computer forcing me to continue packing... I hate packing.  If I were rich, I would travel to wherever I was going and just buy all new things.  I would then donate them to some poor person before I left to return home, but since we do not live in a fantasy world, I will continue to pack.  I remember a time a few years ago when I was trying to cram a bunch of stuff into one suit case because it was cheaper on the Greyhound bus to just take one suitcase.  Michael and I were just friends, but he stayed up all night with me as I packed, unpacked, and packed my suitcase over and over again.  He laughed at me as I sat on top of the suitcase trying to zip it up without busting a seam.  I have to say that I have gotten better.  For this trip I am allowed one small suitcase for carry-on and a backpack.  I have extra room left to bring home surprises.

        Several things have happened since my last post.  I injured my shoulder taking me out of the serious summer action for five more weeks and putting me into therapy for at least three more weeks.  I cried in the doctor's office when he told me, and like a baby, I called Michael and asked him to come sit with me during my first batch of therapy.  He is a champ.  He sat there the whole time holding my hand telling me of all the things that I was still going to be able to do this summer despite a bum shoulder.  I also turned 26.  I was treated to a surprise(ish) birthday celebration from my husband, a random camping and hiking trip, blackberry picking, and a dinner from my dad and his wife.  It was lovely.  The guitar pictured above was a birthday present.  My husband also bought me my very first pair of Chacos.  I almost cried I was so excited, and I have worn them non-stop.  My mother-in-law gave me some rose petals that she saved from our wedding a little over a year ago.  She had placed them in a glass jar, and I was very touched.  I was also overly blessed with a beautiful new cheese grater from my sister-in-law.  That may not be a big deal to most people, but to me... it was the most thoughtful gift since my went missing over a year ago.  I was touched by her kindness.  I was touched by a lot of people's kindness.  So many people offered their love to me, and I felt very blessed to have so many close people in my life. 

        God has given so many things to Michael and I.  We were invited to the State Capitol the other day to help plan the very first ever Human Trafficking Summit the other day, and I finally had my very first photo shoot.  I didn't do horrible, I could have done a lot better.  A friend of mine who is an amazing photographer asked me if I wanted to attend a newborn photo shoot with her as an assistant.  I think I could fall in love with newborn photography.  I had an amazing time.

     I have been thinking a lot about joy lately.  Before I became a believer I was in such a deep state of depression that it is hard sometimes to remember the girl before my life was sacrificed to the Father.  As a new believer, Joy radiated through every fiber of who I was, but has the strain of life became more extreme and I went from carefree college student to employed and married... I felt joy drifting from who I am.  However the Bible says, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  Against such things there is no law.  Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.  Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.  Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other."  Galatians 5:22-25

      We live in such a me focused, self-indulgent world that our own flesh sucks the joy that God promises with the gift of the Spirit right out of us.  We give, but then we complain about how much the giving costs us whether that giving is time or money.  Then.. heaven forbid we do not receive something in return for our giving.  How dare we love on a friend just to have that friend forget about us when feel like that friend should be loving on us.  Giving without expectancy is something that this world has not grasped and sadly our self indulgent and prideful desires our denying us pure joy.  This year for my birthday I desired something more than gifts.  I read a blog post not too long ago about a girl that each year on her birthday did something called random blessings.  She took her age and did that many random blessings.  I wanted nothing more than to try this out on my birthday, and I waited all year long for my chance to randomly bless people (that sounds so silly now that I see it in black and white.  It is as if I believed I could not randomly bless because it was not my birthday). 

    Either way, I started the morning before my birthday, and I my expectations of what these random blessings would be changed considerably through out the day.  I have some most entertaining stories of me attempting, succeeding, and failing at trying to bless people through out the day.  I chose people that were friends from family to even complete strangers.  I didn't even get through all 26 blessings.  I thought this post would be a list of the creative things that I got to do, but when it was all said and done, I was just amazed how joyful I felt.  For so long I have felt under the pressure of being an adult, and now here I was trying to chase dogs out of houses and providing water bottles to peole stranded on the road.  I got the greater gift.  I got joy, and my husband was so blessed by the little blessings that I left for him.  He smiled all day long and told me countless times how precious I was to him.  What started out as a cool idea became the most amazing journey I have had in awhile.

                        My prayer now is so simple that I seem like a child.  I just want to be more aware... quit being so busy and love on some people because that is the gift of joy from the Father.  My old camp director used to tell us everyday to go Make a Difference... I guess as corny as it sounds, I leave you with the same instructions... small or big... go Make a Difference Today.